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for yourself the timeless essence of your being.” —Eckhart Tolle, author of The Power of Now. A PDF version of this booklet can be downloaded on ppti.info . Everything you need to do The Work is available to you free here. The Judge- Your-Neighbor Worksheet and other downloadables are available by clicking the . Use the following four questions and optional sub-questions with the concept that you are investigating. When answering the questions, close.
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Do you really want to know the truth? Investigate each of your statements from the Judge-Your-Neighbor. Worksheet using the four questions. Byron Katie. An Introduction Byron Katie International, Inc. All rights reserved. A PDF version of this booklet can be downloaded. Byron Katie Loving What Is - Ebook download as PDF File .pdf) or view presentation slides online. Byron Katie Loving What Is.
Why do these things happen?
It may not be clear at first. This is about your own empowerment, your ability to see things as they really are, through the eyes of love. That person is you. Whether you stay in or leave a relationship, there are always two ways to do it.
One way is in peace, with love; the other is at war, with anger and blame. If you want to be in peace, judge your partner, write it down, ask four questions, and turn it around.
Cleary see that his flaws are flaws in your own vision. Then let the decision make itself. It always happens right on time, and not a second before. Whenever you want to understand yourself, judge your partner, write it down, ask four questions and turn it around. Because this is where we are the happiest. You know what is true for you… You have everything you need in order to be an honest human being.
No one ever has to be afraid of the truth.
But when we believe what we think, we have to live out those thoughts. When you question what you think, you may see that love was always there but you were blind to it. When I find what is true for me, there are no obstacles anymore.
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There are no barriers between me…and anyone in the world. Five keys to freedom in love 1. This moment should be happening …expect reality not to follow your plan. Questioning the thought that arises when you hit a bump in your life can radically change the quality of your whole existence.
Noticing and counting the beautiful reasons unexpected things happen for us ends the mystery. If you miss the real reasons, the benevolent reasons that coincide with kind nature, then count on depression to let you know that you missed them.
Anger, frustration, and aggressive reasons can be imagined—and what for? But that apparent rightness comes with disgruntlement, and often depression and separation. Depression can feel serious. By now your needs are familiar.
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The result is a hopeless quest filled with separation, frustration, and resentment. No thinking in the world can change it.
What is is. Everything I need is already here now. So everything I need is always supplied. Whose business am I in now? When you no longer intrude and have stopped trying to manipulate or control her, you meet someone who is more amazing than anything you could have imagined.
The transformation of a marriage The effects on a relationship when both people do inquiry can be nothing short of miraculous.
The communication keeps everything open and without secrets. Both partners have written a Worksheet on the other, and each in turn reads the Worksheet aloud. The apparent flaws or shortcomings that each sees and dislikes in the other are, after all, the pain that each one feels. Those painful fights…never happened again.
Right there, I wrote down my thoughts and inquired into them. When I returned to my own business—which meant looking into my thoughts, not his—I felt better immediately. The thoughts unraveled as I asked myself the questions.
If we have a problem with each other, we go to different rooms and write down our thoughts. Then we help each other to inquire. Through inquiry we find out that these stories are just telling us where we wandered from the path of love and understanding. How could it be?
When my neediness died away, what was left was love. There is nothing terrible except your unquestioned thoughts about what you see. Be a child. Know nothing. Take your ignorance all the way to your freedom. Could it be you? Trying to earn your own love is just as painful as seeking the love of others, and the results are just as unsatisfying. And undoing the search works the same way.
When you sincerely question your unexamined thoughts about yourself, love just happens. In every inquiry about a painful relationship—with your spouse, your mother, or someone at work—you always discover that the stress is caused by your own thinking. And when you do the turnarounds, you see how the opposite of a painful thought can be as true or truer. Most people have been told by friends or family or advice columnists that they should love themselves. But how do you do it?
This chapter is…about un-fooling yourself. What are you ashamed of? Love is what we are already. Love is not a doing. There is nothing you have to do.
The Work is a Practice
And when you question your mind, you can see that the only thing that keeps you from being love is a stressful thought. This may take some time to uncover. We can know that reality is good just as it is, because when we argue with it, we experience tension and frustration. When we stop opposing reality, action becomes simple, fluid, kind, and fearless. Even in the name of love, it is pure arrogance, and the result is tension, anxiety, and fear. That is my only business.
Let me work with that before I try to solve your problems for you. That question can bring you back to yourself. It is not our thoughts, but the attachment to our thoughts, that causes suffering. Most people think that they are what their thoughts tell them they are. Thoughts just appear. They come out of nothing and go back to nothing, like clouds moving across the empty sky. They come to pass, not to stay.
There is no harm in them until we attach to them as if they were true. No one has ever been able to control his thinking, although people may tell the story of how they have.
An Introduction 9 Putting the Mind on Paper The first step in The Work is to identify the thoughts and judgments that are causing your stressful emotions and to write them down.
Go t o thework. The truth is that we all have judgments running in our heads. Through The Work we finally have permission to let those judgments speak out, or even scream out, on paper. We may find that even the most unpleasant thoughts can be met with unconditional love. This is the most powerful place to begin. Then they let go of me.
Thoughts are like the breeze or the leaves on the trees or the raindrops falling. They appear like that, and through inquiry we can make friends with them.
Would you argue with a raindrop? Once a painful concept is met with understanding, the next time it appears you may find it interesting. What used to be the nightmare is now just interesting. The next time it appears, you may find it funny. The next time, you may not even notice it. This is the power of loving what is. You can just let loose and be uncensored. When you do The Work, you see who you are by seeing who you think other people are. Eventually you come to see that everything outside you is a reflection of your own thinking.
You are the storyteller, the projector of all stories, and the world is the projected image of your thoughts. Since the beginning of time, people have been trying to change the world so that they can be happy. What The Work gives us is a way to change the projector— mind—rather than the projected.
Once we realize where the lint is, we can clear the lens itself.
Resources for doing The Work
This is the end of suffering, and the beginning of a little joy in paradise. Please be as judgmental, childish, and petty as you were in that situation. This is a time to tantrum, to look within yourself, to look back at that specific situation and be totally honest and uncensored about why you were hurt and how you felt when the situation was occurring.
Allow your feelings to express themselves as they arise, without any fear of consequences or any threat of punishment.Even if the whole world tells me so, is it really true? The Four Questions Card A wallet-sized format for the four questions.
Certified Facilitators of The Work give individual guidance and hold group events around the world. This is the very part of you that you want to hide.
I look forward to… I look forward to Paul lying to me again. The Original Thought: Contemplate the questions, one at a time.
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